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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Patreezy @ Oct 31 2005, 01:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>jeebus.........
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lmao.gif That is some funny sh!t. Yeah, sounds like the guy is a little on the emotionally unstable side and immature. I kind of took this as if it were me in this situation and put myself in his shoes.... And i definately wouldn't have reacted like he did... At all... That's how I would have handled something at 16. Not to mention try and rush things like he did... If it had been me I would have just continued to hang out with you but try to give romantic gestures now and then. Be a little flirtatious but not overbearing... If something would develop out of it fine... If not, oh well. After all, if something is really desirable gradually working toward attaining it would be the wise thing to do. To blindly chase after perfection would only result in failure. Oh yeah, that reminds me. flowers1.gif By the way, I'm NOT Italian and I promise to worship you till the day I die! hail.gif joke.gif Luv ya Liz, hope to meet up with you and Nate again sometime. I'm sure it'll happen at some point if you move to Michigan. ttyl
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lmao.gif That is some funny sh!t. Yeah, sounds like the guy is a little on the emotionally unstable side and immature. I kind of took this as if it were me in this situation and put myself in his shoes.... And i definately wouldn't have reacted like he did... At all... That's how I would have handled something at 16. Not to mention try and rush things like he did... If it had been me I would have just continued to hang out with you but try to give romantic gestures now and then. Be a little flirtatious but not overbearing... If something would develop out of it fine... If not, oh well. After all, if something is really desirable gradually working toward attaining it would be the wise thing to do. To blindly chase after perfection would only result in failure. Oh yeah, that reminds me. flowers1.gif By the way, I'm NOT Italian and I promise to worship you till the day I die! hail.gif joke.gif Luv ya Liz, hope to meet up with you and Nate again sometime. I'm sure it'll happen at some point if you move to Michigan. ttyl
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Uhm, wow. I had people like this come around. You know what? Nevermind him. Guys THINK they get mixed signals or whatever just because you acknowledge them, or hang out with them. Seriously, they convince things to themselves because of their own emotions. He CONVINCED himself that you honestly wanted to try to be with him because he wanted it so bad. It's kind of like Munchausen Syndrome... where people convince themselves so much that they are sick so they really do BECOME sick... just for attention or the thrill.
If anything, tell him you want some space the next time he emails you, just so he can clear his own head. I think he needs some time AWAY from you, and AWAY from your email address.
If anything, tell him you want some space the next time he emails you, just so he can clear his own head. I think he needs some time AWAY from you, and AWAY from your email address.
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Oct 25, 2005 11:11 PM:
god, this guy is a romantic! lmao.gif
Peer pressure? long tongue and doesn't know when tu stfu..?
Oct 25, 2005 11:31 PM:
gets kinda redudnant
Just as it was said - he convinced himself
the what is he doing in following posts?
Gentleman!!!! lmao.gif
dork =)
so, the league is more important that feelings? owned.gif
he is talkign to himself!! uh-oh...
i kinda can see the reasons
whats his age again?
priceless...
Oct 27, 2005 8:35 PM:
yay for realization
that is open offence..imo
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peeps are thinking waaaay to muich to themselves...
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Oct 28, 2005 2:08 AM:
well......duh....
and i thought my grammar is bad...besides, he should've gotten slaped for that one.
holly shit..online stalker!!!!
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reeeeeaaaalllllleyy?? we've heard that one already...hmm
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its funny to see his saying that...after his responses....
he calls himself a man? stupid f@g..
give him a cookie!!!
achthung!!!!!
that EXACLTY why, he isn't getting you..i guess...
Multiple personality?! huh?
so, now hes gangsta?!
sorry for picking hte bones but THAT is just too funny... he isn't a man, and should be slapped. Pitiful crybaby. Poopoo, bad girl took 200 bucks from him... i can't believe that he even got in your attention.
Tell im to f off, as i said and watch him seizuring. He well deserves taht.
you were right, this is going to really bother me, right now my stomach is turning, im pretty sure this will be a restless night,
i wasnt going to shove my toungue down your throat,
its like i dont even want to work tommorowcause im afraid of questions i might get,
Oct 25, 2005 11:31 PM:
but i really care about you, im just hoping i didnt close the door on myself,
and that we can still go on dates togetrer,
i promise i wont rush you and ill never try that until you feel ready,
i was like seriusly going to puke
have my bowling leauges tommorow around nine, so i cant keep you out to long,
dork =)
so, the league is more important that feelings? owned.gif
hey liz i see youve been reading my messages but you havent writen back, ive also tried to call you but your phone is off, i really hope your not ignoring me, im really feeling like you may be ignoring me on purpose, i really hope not,
i wouldnt be so nervous if you had just wrote me back, and maybe you did but i really did not get any
liz i know that you are afraid to get seriuous with me for many reasons,
im really afraid, i already am feeling hurt
im a very understanding person and if you ever just want to talk about things anything at all im reall y a good listener
Oct 27, 2005 8:35 PM:
i feel like a complete asshole
i told so many people bout you, cause i thought you were different,but i see that all these guys coplimenting you has probably gone to your head
which is why you could care less of being with an awsome guy
but i guess why would you want someone to treat you right
well im the little kid
Oct 28, 2005 2:08 AM:
you know something, my opioion of you has chaged dramatically
better you go to michagan, cause i know ill never look at you the same, its a shame, so go to michagan meet a whole bunch of assholes, cause honestly i dont believe a word you say
cause i read your entire profile and if you donnt want to meet someone then why do you say on your profile
there is some mental problems going on, and it also would explain why you need to post so many pics of yourself you obviosly have some insecurity issues,
you are right im a great guy,
the deceny to tell me these things in person, but your obviously not the person you say you are, unless you have multiple personality disorder
its just weird that you are immature about the way you went about this,
I mean shit at least tell me in my face dont shut off your phone and be a coward, and u sure didnt stop me from spending money i mean if you didnt like me you could have told me sooner i mean i spent like 100 bucks on tuesday alone not including another 100 on sat but i guess thats ok what do you care
i told you about my past
your just another story to tell the next girl,
karma is a beautiful thing, youll get what you deserve, god will see to that "
that EXACLTY why, he isn't getting you..i guess...
hey just want to say thanks for hanging out tonight
you wont have balls to come to deer park
sorry for picking hte bones but THAT is just too funny... he isn't a man, and should be slapped. Pitiful crybaby. Poopoo, bad girl took 200 bucks from him... i can't believe that he even got in your attention.
Tell im to f off, as i said and watch him seizuring. He well deserves taht.
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Wow this is guy is stupid. You should just ignore him or keep ignoring him because honestly it looks like if you say something it's going to fuel the fire even more and make him be even more stupid. He's making you out to be the bad guy though he's the one who needs the help. If you ever cross paths with him (which hopefully you dont), have a cross handy and just walk by and put it in his face, maybe he'll melt lolol! tongue.gif
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and I thought some of the girls I've dated were psychotic but damn this guy really takes the cake on psycho daters.... he needs his own reality TV show!
Unfortunately for you you are an attractive girl.... so the asshole's, wacko's, nutjobs, and everything inbetween just come out of the woodwork vying for your attention. Note every guy posting in the topic =P joke.gif Just cut him off completely tell him that he's smothering you and needs to back the hell off cause this guy is seriously boredering on stalker. Run girl! run while you still can!
Unfortunately for you you are an attractive girl.... so the asshole's, wacko's, nutjobs, and everything inbetween just come out of the woodwork vying for your attention. Note every guy posting in the topic =P joke.gif Just cut him off completely tell him that he's smothering you and needs to back the hell off cause this guy is seriously boredering on stalker. Run girl! run while you still can!
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i didnt read any of the messages he sent you or what you sent him...but posting them was kinda low. its none of our business what he says. its your problem and i know you asked for advice and in order to get it you should tell people the entire story...but to post it on a website. its reasons like that as to why i dont share my personal life with anyone but the people involved, hoping they do they same and dont go blabbin to other people.
but good luck. its never easy breaking someones heart.
but good luck. its never easy breaking someones heart.