UPDATE! This guys CRAZY! omg

Alright so I told him how I felt and everything and he went nuts. Heres all the messages he sent me, theyre pretty funny if you have some time and wanna read them.



Oct 25, 2005 11:11 PM:

"hey liz its mike, i hope you get this, im real sorry for trying to kiss u, i should have known better, i tried calling you a little after, but you didnt answer, right now im not sure if its cause you hate me or if you just didnt hear your phone, but either way im sure im not going to hear from you tonight, and you were right, this is going to really bother me, right now my stomach is turning, im pretty sure this will be a restless night, i just want you to know that i guess i got some mixed signals when you said we were dating it felt really good, and i guess i just wanted to break the ice, i wasnt going to shove my toungue down your throat, i guess i just wanted to have that first kiss, and it looks like my emotions got the best of me, i really care about you liz, im not a fake, i just hope i didnt scare you, i hope i will hear from you, cause right now im a mess, its like i dont even want to work tommorowcause im afraid of questions i might get, and my mind is shot right now, i know you said dont worry but i guess till i hear from you, im going to be a mess, i know you can have anyone you want, but i promise you my feelings are real, and i hope that you know that, im not looking for a fling, im just looking for love, you have brought out feelings in me that i havent expeienced in a long time, i really hope that you will still talk and hang out with me, cause if i feel like this then i know that the feelings i have are deep, i had to call my cousin to tell her what happened, i feel like such a dick, i just should have known better, im really sorry, please forgive me, i promise i wont do anything till your ready, i miss u, and please if your mad please let me know, id rather you tell me then to ignore me, but im hoping everything is cool, have a good night
mike "

Oct 25, 2005 11:31 PM:

"thanks for writing me back, i feel so much better, i know that you have alot on your mind, im sorry for confusing things a little more for you, but i really care about you, im just hoping i didnt close the door on myself, and that we can still go on dates togetrer, i promise i wont rush you and ill never try that until you feel ready, really though thank u for writing back, i was like seriusly going to puke, good night and ill give you a call on thursday if thats cool with u, maybe we can hang for a little while, i promise not to try that again, this way you are comfortable, its that i really have had a good time with you, and i do seriously miss u
goodnight
mike"

Oct 26, 2005 11:19 PM:

"hi liz, just wanted to say hi, hope you had a good day, ill give you a call tommorow after you get home from work, maybe we could get something to eat again, or maybe just get some hot cocoa or something, i have my bowling leauges tommorow around nine, so i cant keep you out to long, and dont worry i promise not to have a repeat of the other night, anyway have a good night and hopefully we will talk tommorow,
mike"

Oct 27, 2005 7:03 PM:

"hey liz i see youve been reading my messages but you havent writen back, ive also tried to call you but your phone is off, i really hope your not ignoring me, im really feeling like you may be ignoring me on purpose, i really hope not, iwas going to see if you wanted to hang today but i guess thats not going to happen, i was going to ask you if you would like to go see a show in the city, which i would have rather have said in person but seeing how there is no way to contact you other than this, i figuerd id ask on here, im sorry for the other night, if thats the reason i havent been able to get a hold of you, i guess i wouldnt be so nervous if you had just wrote me back, and maybe you did but i really did not get any replies, liz i know that you are afraid to get seriuous with me for many reasons, but i have to tell you in all honesty im a mess over here, i didnt realize that i would feel this way for someone again, and cause its been so long im really afraid, i already am feeling hurt, cause i havent been able to get a hold of you, please write me back so i know whats going on, cause the worst thing abuot ecerything is that i dont know and i beg you not to ignore me, just please tell me how u feel, im a great listener, and i feel that there may be many thins you want to tell me and that you might be afraid too, im a very understanding person and if you ever just want to talk about things anything at all im reall y a good listener, all i can say is you know how i feel about you, and i would do anything for you and i mean that going out with you those times were very special to me, and my heart is poundind right now just writing this, just please write me back or call me or something so i know whats going on, like if im still going to see you on sat, please dont leave me hangin, your a great person and i know you wouldnt do that to me, if i dont here from you tonight, have a good night and please write k
mike"

Oct 27, 2005 8:35 PM:

"well let me first start off by saying i never thought you would do this, and yes you did give mixed signals, i asked you on the first night we hung out if you saw me as someone you could date or just be a friend, you told me that you saw me as someone you could date, and yes im a mess over this cause i truly didnt think you would do this to me, i feel like a complete asshole, i told so many people bout you, cause i thought you were different,but i see that all these guys coplimenting you has probably gone to your head which is why you could care less of being with an awsome guy cause you know you have your pick of who ever you want when you want, so of course youll throw me away, when i said i care about you i really do, i never was trying to force you to have feelings for me, i figured they would come in time, i thought you were absoulty perfect beyond anything i could imagine, and yes you would be a dream come true, but i guess why would you want someone to treat you right, oh yeah cause your young and want to have fun, well i like to have fun too, but i wouldnt be ignorant if i knew someone has come along who is one in a million and shows interest in me, just cause i want to have fun, me and you would have a lot of fun and i would never ask you to give up friends or anything like that, as far as being freinds liz i dont really know to be honest i am really hurt aand this is going to hurt for a while, you might say to yourself why would this hurt me so bad if we only hung out twice, well im the little kid in the candy store who finnally got the candy only to have it swiped out of my hands, ive liked you a long time and you knew this prior to last saturday, you would have done the right thing if you had told me then that you didnt like me, so of course i got excited when you said you would cause i always thought you were alot like me, and that you were special, and i would hve bet my life that you and me were meant to be togrther, but i guess i would have died, this really hurts alot so im not going to lie, i just wish you would still give me a chance, im not asking for you to fall in love with me tommorow just time for you to get to know me even better, please reconsider liz, i know your a great person and i know youll do the right thing, please respond to me, i just want to know if your still going to hang on sat
mike"

Oct 28, 2005 2:08 AM:

"you know something, my opioion of you has chaged dramatically, i didnt think you were this type of person, but i guess you were to good to be true, its cool though, better you go to michagan, cause i know ill never look at you the same, its a shame, so go to michagan meet a whole bunch of assholes, cause honestly i dont believe a word you say cause i read your entire profile and if you donnt want to meet someone then why do you say on your profile that you do, i really believe its my age thats the problem or my attemt to kiss you or something, or just possibly there is another guy in the picture, or it could be that something is just wrong with u, i mean i read that u said you had anorexia so right there tellls me there is some mental problems going on, and it also would explain why you need to post so many pics of yourself you obviosly have some insecurity issues, you are right im a great guy, and to be honest i thought being that you knew me for some time now that you would of at least had the deceny to tell me these things in person, but your obviously not the person you say you are, unless you have multiple personality disorder, which i think you might, considering that you really did give me mixed signals, telling me that you were attracted to me and that i was lucky cause your picky, or maybe you forgot you said these things, its just weird that you are immature about the way you went about this, i mean shit at least tell me in my face dont shut off your phone and be a coward, and u sure didnt stop me from spending money i mean if you didnt like me you could have told me sooner i mean i spent like 100 bucks on tuesday alone not including another 100 on sat but i guess thats ok what do you care, like i said you are not the person i thought you were,and yeah to be honest i am really hurt and its going to be a while for me to get over this, but you know whats f***ed up, i told you about my past, and now your no better than they were cause you broke my heart too, well i guess your just another story to tell the next girl, and hopefully she will be the one, i wonder though why did you lie, you told me you dont do drugs then i read your profile and you said you got high with your friends, i think you might have some serious issues, its to bad i didnt look like your ex and do drugs and stuff then you might have liked me, or maybe i just should have asked for sex, i mean you did say you wanted to be free and have fun, oh yeah and by the way u said that you dated someone after you broke up with your boyfriend funny how come you didnt want to be free then, i think u should think about the thinggs you say cause none of it makes sense, now all the sudden you dont want a boyfriend but with the guy before me it was ok, and you should reallly change your profile if you dont want to meet someone, but i know thats a lie, you just dont want to be with me cause im old and tried to kiss u, i just am having a real hard time with this, cause i really thought we would be together somday, now i have to go to work tommorow and tell everyone that i failed with you, thank you very much, you could have saved me this embarresment on sat, but im a firm beliver in god, and what goes around comes around and for what you did to me god will take care of you in his own way
mike"

Oct 29, 2005 1:10 AM:

"you disapoint me i figured you answer back, with something stupid, but maybe i was just right and it hit home a little, oh well like i said before ,karma is a beautiful thing, youll get what you deserve, god will see to that "

Oct 29, 2005 9:43 PM

"hey just want to say thanks for hanging out tonight, oh yeah thats right i forgot you dicked me over, i guess ill never see you again cause im sure you wont have balls to come to deer park ave coward, your a real class act for what you did, i hope you happy, cause it didnt have to be this way, you could have talked to me like a mature adult, but you decided to take the cowardly way out, so instead of keeping a friend, it seems you want an enemy, and if thats what you want then thats what youll get, best if you go to michagen, cause your car will only be second best here in ny, as long as the green tib is still here anyway, i hate to be mean and this kills me but you created this, id rather be mad at you then to cry so this makes it easier,"

Oct 30, 2005 12:41 AM:

"no response again so i guess you choose to be enemys, what a child, i never would have thought this, you obviously dont give a shit, like i said class act, oh yeah hold on let me be like everyone else, wow your so hot, beauty is only skin deep, and beside your looks your hollow inside, i was a guy who saw the whole you, i was very wrong, your just a facad, i hope you meet a guy that dates you for all the wrong reasons, and just know i curse you forever, and all this could have been avoided if you were just mature about things"




I HATE ITALIANS!!!!!!!!!!

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jeebus.........

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How old is this kid. My god, stop writing him back. Leave town, SAY YOU haVE HERPIES, it's the only thing left to dooooooooooooooooo !!!!!!!!! lmao.gif

 

ignoring him was the worst thing you could have done. sad.gif

 

Damn Liz, first Kit Fox then this guy. You attract the strangest dudes. smile.gif

 

^^I really do. It's not fair 02.gif

At first I was responding but he wasnt listening to what I said. Hes 29. Sounds like hes like 16, right?

 

Just give him a reply, explain him how you feel and give an end.

I hope he won't register in here, otherwise we are all f%$cked up lmao.gif

 

Oh I did reply.

Here's what I wrote:

"Hi,

Alright I'm just gonna be completely honest with you. I thought I made it clear how I felt before this all started. But I guess maybe I led you on or sent mixed signals, I don't know. But the bottom line is that I don't want a relationship right now. I just want to be single. You are an awesome guy and I really enjoy hanging out with you. But I just don't have feelings for you and you can't force it.

Like I said you're an awesome guy and I hope we can remain friends.

Take care, and please don't get yourself worked up over this.

Liz"


"I know you're a nice guy. But what you're not getting is that I don't wanna be with anyone. At all. I just wanna move to Michigan, go to school, and do my own thing. I don't want to be held back. Im a very independant person and that's one thing that my ex couldnt understand. He always held me back. I explained to you how I felt and you kept pushing me and pushing me to give you a chance. I agreed to hang out with you. I never said I would date you. I said I could date you if I developed feelings. But I dont want a relationship and I dont have feelings. Im sorry. I really am, I never wanted you to get hurt.

Liz"

What really pissed me off is how much he was forcing himself on me and just assuming that the minute I turned single Id wanna be with him. Stop it. Get over yourself. Pompous Italian. Hes just like my last two exes.

 

sounds quite selfish Liz... There is one girl I would love to see, but she has a b/f like that.. last time she tried to break up, he attempted suicide and almost succeeded... talk about a guilt trip

 

Liz that guy is truely f***ed up. What a head case. It really sounds like he was hearing what he wanted to hear from you, and not listening to what you were saying.
The main thing to remember about us guys is that when it comes to beautiful women, we have a tendency to do our thinking with our little head instead of our big head which is almost always a recipe for disaster.
The best piece of advice I can give you is to put as much distance between you and this wanker.
Run, Run away fast

 

lmao.gif Poor guy. I bet his room has a little corner with candles and pictures of you everywhere. Tibbychick shrine. tongue.gif

Dunno what to do now. He just crazy in the head.