my girlfriend's mom decided that we cannot see each other anymore. she blocked both of my phone numbers, and took text messaging off her daughter's cell too. also, the computer is in her mother's room, so no instant messaging either.
im so upset..this is completely unfair. i needed to vent, anyone have any ideas? im also getting the vibe from her that she just wants to break up because she is afraid of her mother, but everytime i try to talk to her about it she just starts balling.
im a wreck..this was really a serious relationship, and we got along SO great.
i HATE her mother.

 

how old are you and how long where you with her?

 

Same questions as above, and also what sparked her mother to do this?

 

17, so i'll still be able to see her in school.
6 months, but pretty much the most serious relationship either of us have been in.
well, her mother claims that when i am around she is not herself, she acts different, i hold her back "since i met her she has hidden her true self".

the real problem is her mother though..she is vindictive, heartless, and honestly we think she's bipolar. she is one immature ****ed up lady, she's already had like 3 lawsuits filed against her. her husband is dead silent. he does not speak at all, he has no relationship with anyone in his immediate family. it's really all quite disfunctional, but im still in love with her daughter, and she doesn't have any of these problems.

 

^ dude, when I first read your post, I was gonna ask if the mother was mentally ill. She may be bipolar or worse, you never know. The thing is, she's still a minor living under her mother's house so it's kinda tough man. Continue to see her at school and try to figure out a way to keep in contact with her while at home. The old sneaking out through the window at night thing never hurt anyone wink1.gif
Honestly, you want to be careful about dating people that have serious family issues man, It may come back to haunt you later if those issues are never resolved.

 

Hey man, this almost exact situation happened to me when I was 16, We got cought screwing and I couldnt see her anymore....but we stuck through it only seeing each other in school, and eventually they got over it, and look at us now, we are getting married in 3 months!

I saw just stick with it for awhile and see how it goes. I know it sucks 02.gif

 

wait a year till she's 18

 

My wife just jumped states to come live with me @ 15 yrs old.. Just up and left her moms house one day and never went back laugh.gif

If its serious enough, Youll figure out a way.. *evil* murder is not an option? *evil*

 

The both of you should do what you want to do, and should continue seeing each other. And when she turns 18, there is nothing her mom can do about it. I would just keep it on the d/l for now, if possible. But don't let sh!t like this fvck things up for you. You're too young. If my mother told me I couldn't date my boyfriend, who was 20 when I was 17, I'd have told her to fvck off and went out with him anyway.

 

she's 15. im 17. but she'll be 16 next month .. so she'll get her license and stuff. she lives about 20 minutes from me, so that even complicates things more. also, her mother does in-home living care and the patient died a few months ago, she isn't back to work yet so she's always home.
prom is kinda shot this year :-(
my gf is so confused right now, she's a wreck. i fear that eventually, or even soon, she will just want to get rid of me. her mom brainwashes her basically, really tries to convince her that i am bad. she's deathly afraid of her mom, that's the real problem. she won't even call me, even though im sure she could get away with it sometimes. mommy can't always be there.
im just really upset