my girlfriend's mom..
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heh, all the advice I would have given went right out the window when I found out your ages. You have your whole life in front of you. If things are ment to be, they will happen. It sucks in the beginning (I was in a 3yr relationship that went sour (totally different circumstances) but I'm still kickin tongue.gif: ).
Oh, one piece of advice that you should take to heart in Serious relationships... "When you marry someone, you marry their family" Remember that one, esp with that mom your talking about.
Oh, one piece of advice that you should take to heart in Serious relationships... "When you marry someone, you marry their family" Remember that one, esp with that mom your talking about.
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Well for my 2 cents.... I have been there and had these problems. Trust me when I say it is worth it. Take it as a sign and move on for now. Like Casper said, if it was ment to be it will happen one day. Just because today isnt that day doesnt mean that it wont ever happen, just dont get you hopes up. If your asking if the pain stops the answer is no, I had these problems about 4 years ago now and have thought about it and her everyday since. Yeah I'm a sofy deal with it tongue.gif:
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it's just upsetting because we want to be together, but we can't.
parents should not be able to f'ing dictate sh-t like this.
it's not like getting dumped, that's depressing..it's just like all i want is to see her for like 20 minutes and talk stuff over, but i can't.
just needed to vent, thanks for the advice...i am hoping that tomorrow i will talk to her and tell her we will just stay together for time being, see each other in school, maybe *accidentally show up to the same party on the weekends..and just take things as they come. possibly it will blow over evetually.
parents should not be able to f'ing dictate sh-t like this.
it's not like getting dumped, that's depressing..it's just like all i want is to see her for like 20 minutes and talk stuff over, but i can't.
just needed to vent, thanks for the advice...i am hoping that tomorrow i will talk to her and tell her we will just stay together for time being, see each other in school, maybe *accidentally show up to the same party on the weekends..and just take things as they come. possibly it will blow over evetually.
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I'm moving this to the Gripes thread where it belongs. I'll also remove your warning, since you aren't supposed to really be warned in the Gripes thread.
I've seen this happen with friends who are in COLLEGE. One girl's parents made her go to school out of state (Alabama) instead of in-state where she wanted to go. She kept seeing the same guy, and even came home and stayed at his house without telling her parents she was in town. They found out (I think they were stalking her) and supposedly used the GPS stuff on her cell to find out she was in town. It's a really bad situation, and it's so similar. The mom is so messed up and the dad doesn't agree with the mom, but he stays quiet and won't dare question her or get in the way. Everybody thinks she's bipolar, too (local performance forum).
I've seen this happen with friends who are in COLLEGE. One girl's parents made her go to school out of state (Alabama) instead of in-state where she wanted to go. She kept seeing the same guy, and even came home and stayed at his house without telling her parents she was in town. They found out (I think they were stalking her) and supposedly used the GPS stuff on her cell to find out she was in town. It's a really bad situation, and it's so similar. The mom is so messed up and the dad doesn't agree with the mom, but he stays quiet and won't dare question her or get in the way. Everybody thinks she's bipolar, too (local performance forum).
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Im 18 and finished school last year. My GF, Christi, and I have been together 2 years and 2 months today, well if we were together as of right now.
Christi and I have had my parents get in between us almost our whole relationship. Just like you, they said i couldnt call, go out with her, use the computer, etc. Like you said earlier, i still tried to talk to her on the phone when I could and stop by her house on the way to my friends. To make a long story short, we tried to get through it with my parents in the way and it kinda didnt work. She started seeing other guys while we were together and even left for the beach for a week with another guy after telling me just the night b4. So what im trying to say is, even though you love her and want things to work, i can tell you they wont. Things may seem ok, but there will always be something little that happens that is out of your control just because your not there.
CHristi and I are taking a "break" right now to get some things taken care of. When i think about our problems, they all seem to derive from the begining of our relationship when i couldnt be there with her. So take my advice, being your age and going through the same thing. Try to find someone else for now and work on things with her, later, when the time comes. Itll hurt like a b**** not being with her, but it will hurt worse later on when you think everything is cool and you find out in her eyes its not.
Christi and I have had my parents get in between us almost our whole relationship. Just like you, they said i couldnt call, go out with her, use the computer, etc. Like you said earlier, i still tried to talk to her on the phone when I could and stop by her house on the way to my friends. To make a long story short, we tried to get through it with my parents in the way and it kinda didnt work. She started seeing other guys while we were together and even left for the beach for a week with another guy after telling me just the night b4. So what im trying to say is, even though you love her and want things to work, i can tell you they wont. Things may seem ok, but there will always be something little that happens that is out of your control just because your not there.
CHristi and I are taking a "break" right now to get some things taken care of. When i think about our problems, they all seem to derive from the begining of our relationship when i couldnt be there with her. So take my advice, being your age and going through the same thing. Try to find someone else for now and work on things with her, later, when the time comes. Itll hurt like a b**** not being with her, but it will hurt worse later on when you think everything is cool and you find out in her eyes its not.
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my advice...kill the mom...
honestly the age thing doesn't bother me it's less than a 2 year difference, she is young. and your young so you will definately find another girl. just go **** as many girls as you can in the mean time, and if you get a chance to get back with her then do it. she can't be mad at you for getting your rocks off especailly if you weren't together.
honestly the age thing doesn't bother me it's less than a 2 year difference, she is young. and your young so you will definately find another girl. just go **** as many girls as you can in the mean time, and if you get a chance to get back with her then do it. she can't be mad at you for getting your rocks off especailly if you weren't together.
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i'd call Dr. Phil....
i'm just bustin your balls man, i used to be really bad with parents 2, id' talk to her mom urself stop by when her daughter aint home and see what she is goin apesh*t for assuming you really didn't do nothin
i'm just bustin your balls man, i used to be really bad with parents 2, id' talk to her mom urself stop by when her daughter aint home and see what she is goin apesh*t for assuming you really didn't do nothin
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well hopefully everything works out zoned. Remember that you are young and when you go to college you'll prolly run into a nice little hottie that will make you forget any past g/f's lol
Don't sneak around man, that is just asking for trouble. That just shows that her mom is right. No matter how crazy she seems, she is still her mom. If you g/f wants to work something out she'll have to deal with it. I don't think you have any control over this right now. sry bro.
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Someone from here should go pick zoned up and go pick up some b!tches!!!!!!!
Don't sneak around man, that is just asking for trouble. That just shows that her mom is right. No matter how crazy she seems, she is still her mom. If you g/f wants to work something out she'll have to deal with it. I don't think you have any control over this right now. sry bro.
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Someone from here should go pick zoned up and go pick up some b!tches!!!!!!!