Need Advice From Guys
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From: Los Lunas, New Mexico, USA.
Vehicle: 2001 Hyundai Tiburon, 2004 Kia Sorento, 2010 Kia Soul
He's Italian?
Here's a few.
1. Tell him you can't stand hairy men. You were trying, but just can't do it. He's have to spend a fortune in razors to stay with you.
2. Superglue his penis to his taint.
3. Put 2 tubes of superglue or Nair in his shampoo.
4. Tell him you just found out you are terminally homosexual.
Here's a few.
1. Tell him you can't stand hairy men. You were trying, but just can't do it. He's have to spend a fortune in razors to stay with you.
2. Superglue his penis to his taint.
3. Put 2 tubes of superglue or Nair in his shampoo.
4. Tell him you just found out you are terminally homosexual.
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From: Washington D.C.
Vehicle: Hyundai Tiburon FX
where are you moving to? i'll go with you. our cars can date. we can be just like each other and get married and have kids and never be apart!
Haha, sike. i'm a nice guy, but i'll be able to tell whether or not she'll answer my phonecalls. actually that hasn't happened to me yet however if it does i will know. it's more the opposite for me. i've let more than 100 girlies down because they weren't that hot or something was wrong with them that would later prove "incompatable." believe me when i say, it's not worth the effort.
just talk to him staight forward one day to the side and be like, "i've got too much responsabilities to take care of to be in a relationship... it'll never stop really, so if you're a nice girl and want to be nice about it, really just make up some bullsh-t irreversable excuse like i always do. "i've loved this one girl since freshman high school for so long i cannot think of anybody else!" --ooh that's a heartbraker, oh well. lmao.gif
Haha, sike. i'm a nice guy, but i'll be able to tell whether or not she'll answer my phonecalls. actually that hasn't happened to me yet however if it does i will know. it's more the opposite for me. i've let more than 100 girlies down because they weren't that hot or something was wrong with them that would later prove "incompatable." believe me when i say, it's not worth the effort.
just talk to him staight forward one day to the side and be like, "i've got too much responsabilities to take care of to be in a relationship... it'll never stop really, so if you're a nice girl and want to be nice about it, really just make up some bullsh-t irreversable excuse like i always do. "i've loved this one girl since freshman high school for so long i cannot think of anybody else!" --ooh that's a heartbraker, oh well. lmao.gif
I would deffinitly tell him that you don't feel the same way about him. I hate it when i see girls at my work etc that agree to go out with a guy because they feel bad for him, don't want to hurt his feelings or anyother bs. i would hate to go out with a girl, spend the time and money on her and later find out that she doesn't even care about me.
And if he does turn suicidal then i guess there's one less freak in the world to deal with. Not to affend anyone but if he tries to kill himself just because he gets broken up with, imagine what he'll do when something more serious happens. Someone more important could get hurt. He's not worth risking your life for.
And if he does turn suicidal then i guess there's one less freak in the world to deal with. Not to affend anyone but if he tries to kill himself just because he gets broken up with, imagine what he'll do when something more serious happens. Someone more important could get hurt. He's not worth risking your life for.
Just say: "I'm sorry but I'm just not into you. If we can't just remain friends then, I hate to say it but we can no longer hang out together. I'd hate to lose a good friend over this."
See how he reacts.
In one fell swoop you've told him how you feel about him & also what will happen if he doesn't back off.
Sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind fing02.gif
See how he reacts.
In one fell swoop you've told him how you feel about him & also what will happen if he doesn't back off.
Sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind fing02.gif
Well Im not a guy but hey i think I can still post. smile.gif
Ive seen people be on the same boat as you. Dont even feel bad, do what you have to do. Just tell him your not ready for a relationship right now and would like to remain friends. Should work out. fing02.gif
Ive seen people be on the same boat as you. Dont even feel bad, do what you have to do. Just tell him your not ready for a relationship right now and would like to remain friends. Should work out. fing02.gif
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From: South Korea where u car from fool
Vehicle: 2008/Hyundai/Tiburon gt
tell him how you feel and be honest if he responds badly to your request then he just wanted some ass or his feelings got hurt
hard to say TC.. but be true to yourself and act in your own best intrest
hard to say TC.. but be true to yourself and act in your own best intrest
Been there, done that.
And guess what? my suicidal ex is still alive actually!
I kept on going out with her for a while (9 month...) even though I knew that her being so depandent scares the shit out of me.... I like independent women....) Oh yes, she hated me being involved in tuning ...
that biatch wink1.gif
and them she goes and tells me that she tried to swallow pills in her past.... guess she saw that I'm feeling compassion or whtever....
Knowing that, I kept going out with her, telling myself that I Don't wanna see her hurt herself...
The I took some time off, and understood one thing:
You can't feel soory for the whole world. Simply can't.
The first person you should think about in such situations is YOU.
Staying with a guy, even a suicidal one, out of love is one thing.
Staying with someone just not to hurt him is allllll different. That way you are hurting yourself!
You must understand, being a bright girl (plus you drive a modified tib fing02.gif ) that being 29 and acting like a child is wrong. Not in general, but wrong FOR YOU!
Sometimes these people see you feeling sorry for them, and use that card against you, knowing that it might keep you toghther.
Once, people used to say that they are going to kill themselves and actually did.
You should always take these words seriously, or at least read between the lines.
Today, due to all the TV coverage of this issue, it is OVERused by some freaks.
To conclude, I'm sorry if my post is a bit hard to read, but it simply hit a nerve.
Hope it helps you out!
Cut this relationship, as fast and as clearly as possible. You know that you don't want it.
And guess what? my suicidal ex is still alive actually!
I kept on going out with her for a while (9 month...) even though I knew that her being so depandent scares the shit out of me.... I like independent women....) Oh yes, she hated me being involved in tuning ...
that biatch wink1.gif
and them she goes and tells me that she tried to swallow pills in her past.... guess she saw that I'm feeling compassion or whtever....
Knowing that, I kept going out with her, telling myself that I Don't wanna see her hurt herself...
The I took some time off, and understood one thing:
You can't feel soory for the whole world. Simply can't.
The first person you should think about in such situations is YOU.
Staying with a guy, even a suicidal one, out of love is one thing.
Staying with someone just not to hurt him is allllll different. That way you are hurting yourself!
You must understand, being a bright girl (plus you drive a modified tib fing02.gif ) that being 29 and acting like a child is wrong. Not in general, but wrong FOR YOU!
Sometimes these people see you feeling sorry for them, and use that card against you, knowing that it might keep you toghther.
Once, people used to say that they are going to kill themselves and actually did.
You should always take these words seriously, or at least read between the lines.
Today, due to all the TV coverage of this issue, it is OVERused by some freaks.
To conclude, I'm sorry if my post is a bit hard to read, but it simply hit a nerve.
Hope it helps you out!
Cut this relationship, as fast and as clearly as possible. You know that you don't want it.
Eh, one of my friends professed his love for me when I was in a relationship. I told him that it would NOT ever work out. I had a talk with someone I work with and he said this: when you start to give a guy attention and he has told you his feelings for you, he knows you are very aware and that perhaps the attention is you giving into the feelings. You agreeing to hang out with him after he professed his love for you is making him think that you are interested. You HAVE to tell him that you are having second thoughts about seeing each other. Tell him you are not ready for a relationship or even dating, especially when you are moving. Tell him you have enough stress with your car, moving, etc. and he'll hopefully back off. When a guy is head over heels for you, you have to make it seem like you have enough problems of your own and to make it also seem like he is ADDING to your problems. Seriously, tell him that he's putting more stress on your shoulders that you can't deal with right now, and that you would think it is best that you both didn't see each other anymore... or at least for a while. Tell him he needs to back off, and that you don't want things to get serious. Otherwise, he really does believe you are interested in him.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Tibbychick @ Oct 26 2005, 03:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Hes a nice guy, has a NICE CAR</div>
"I'm not saying you're a gold digger.."
"I'm not saying you're a gold digger.."


