You know Bliz that's pretty much the same thing that other individuals from the forum I used to visit have been saying all along.
At one point in time I had nothing. No car job or anything else because I entered the US post 911 and there were big delays..

So I got into doing these machines to pass the time.. However, as soon as I was in a car, at a job and busy with life (that I now had hehe) I didnt care for it much anymore.

Straw that broke the camels back was when the wife left me and I realised I didnt have any time for it AT ALL, so had my account closed and vanished.

And you know why they hate me? because of the exact same kind of postings I make here. I am very expressive and tend to talk alot. I post alot of pics. I try to contribute.

Yet some people see that as 'sob stories' 'showing off' or god knows what else.

I can absolutely assure you that Art will verify I have never gone to him whining about anything. And believe me I have had plenty to whine about lol. Instead I crack jokes and just try to be positive. He knows this, he also knows that anything that may cause me ill feeling or stress is dealt with in the same way "f*** it, not worth it" and that's it, onto the next day.

Redz said once that I was giving off sob stories. I guess sometimes when shit aint so good it seems that way, but I can assure anyone here that It's not like that at all.I suppose it's not WHAT I say its the context it can be seen in, but I promise you anyone who now knows me here in the USA (and I have made many friends) will tell you the same thing, youll NEVER hear me whining.

Visualise my posts upbeat, loud and full of sarcasm and joke, because that's how I am IRL. As Art has said, Im VERY outspoken, infact he mentioned tonight that Im probably THE most outspoken person he has ever met lol. But the thing is I dont just mouth off. I do what I say I will do and I get it done.

I can understand why some people dont like me.. Maybe they dont have the confidence in themselves or the ability to really and truly portray how they feel and put it into words? I know I can, very well. Im not afraid to open up and let people really know who I am ,I dont play head games and never have, what you see is what you get 24/7, take it or leave it, like it or lump it, put up or shut up.

 

I have no problem changing someone's user name to help them out, I'm just not doing it for NO reason. When have I ever used the words "Sob story"?

Go ahead and ban the spammer guys.

 

Pandy: you need to send out a PM to alot of people... or start a pictures of my trunk setup.

 

done

 

I'm not sure exactly how it was said Redz, nor did it matter.. Infact at the time I had alot of shit going down and realised that because I tend to talk about it alot it was better not to and take a break..

Last thing I wanted to do was bum anyone out so I took a break smile.gif

Im not sure if a username change would work now tbh, they know where my threads are and what my car looks like.. I suppose for now I'll just have to see how it goes and pray that it doesnt cause anymore crap for you guys..

BTW guys (spart Redz and Art) thanks for taking care of it. Im really embarassed about it in all honesty, I cant believe they would open an account here to try and harass me, let alone piss you guys off with it too.

Think about the ammount of time they must have spent and wasted sending out all those pms, and then you can get a good idea of what kind of people they are.

 

^^ Can I suggest banning their IP? I know you can do that one, but you may be able to ban emails as well, am I right?