Your first mistake was waiting 6 years.

Be the man, just do it.

I'm a person that doesn't stay "single" for long, I always have one/more girls in my life.

You get rejected just as much as you get accepted. You can't let that stuff get to you...and don't let yourself fall for someone until you've been dating awhile.

 

You're only 22 man. Don't sweat it. I'm young too (be 25 next week), but i've already been head-over-steeltoed-boots a few times, and had a couple girls that i've been so in love with that I lived with em for a couple years.
You might be boiling hot inside and jumping at the sight of your love, but don't forgot that she might only be the ONE right now because you don't have her. Not trying to be a naysayer, but don't forget that you might be throwing away her friendship, and maybe the chance to make it work with someone else, if you go after her and find out that you just built her up to be the ONE in your head.

In closing, I say this. If it took you guys 6 years to get something started, then it's not going to work out. </pessimism>

The other half of me is saying, "Nail her. Even if it doesn't work out, at least she's another notch in the bedpost. You can never have too many of those."

 

Don't do it!!!! Love sucks. Stick to your Tiburon. If she gets boring, try sticking it in the tail pipe or the cold air intake. If that's not enough, then go out and rent one for a night.

 

lol, dont listen to him, obviously.

Im kind of in the same thing right now. I totally love this girl but shes with someone else. She SAYS she still loves me but then why arent we together? I havent held anything back though. Ive told her how I feel. But as time goes on eventually Ill have to let go. I know exactly what you mean about someone having your heart. When someone else comes along you dont have enough of it to give to anyone else.

Theres a couple girls I could be with right now. Great girls. I just dont think I have enough to give them right now. Just dont hold back and if she gives you an opportunity, go for it! good luck

 

Just to let you know, this thread kinda hit home with me too.

Just a little bit about me: I'm 20, known this girl since my freshman year of high school which is about 6 years ago at this point. Always kinda been interested in her and then when I was a junior (4 years ago) I kinda fell for her. Things happened (never kissed or had sex nothing like that) but I fell for her. I've had her on my mind awhile now, If i hear some song on the radio like papa roach-forever, chris daughtry- crashed, or anything like that. I immediately think of her. I've always wondered what could've happened and why I never went for it.

I'm a different person now and we're still good friends though admittedly we don't talk as much as I'd like with her being at a different school. Shes just about one of the only persons I can tell "I love you" to and mean it. I still wonder "What if"...

You have to go for it man, you really don't want to be questioning yourself the rest of your life do you? I know I don't.

 

??? Dude, look at the agony your love is giving you. Loving chicks = agony. Cars = rewards. Let me use the examples after this post to show you.


I'll never let my tiburon go. I get back what I put in. No matter what, she'll sit there waiting for me.


I get that too... What If I put LEDs under my bumper and then covered them with a HD lip.... Then I did it. I also don't talk to her enough.

My tiburon treats me right even when I treat her wrong. I beat her and she stays with me. I know I can only beat her for so long and then she'll need a new engine. But she takes it and likes it.


I'm telling you dude... If you get involved, you'll spend more time with her. If you spend enough time with her ,you'll have kids. If you have kids, you have less time and money to spend on other things.

We have 2 resources which allow us to do the things we want to do; time and money. It's all about where you want to put that time and money. If you want to create something new which takes up all of your time and money, go ahead and have a kid. Even if you don't have a kid, chicks suck up time and money. I'd rather keep my freedom and be able to do what I want, when I want.

I'm guilty myself, but I remind myself to get my head out of the clouds and get back to what matters.

 

being in love IS being free. and if all you care about is LEDs, you head truly is and always will be in the clouds...

This girl means the world to me, and i forget who posted above( too lazy to scroll up)...but the point they made about i could have built her up just because shes the only one ive wanted but never had is a valid point too, ive thought of that and i can see that, but i know its not the case with her.

 

DTN, your so full of crap bro... lol...*chuckles*

You do realize that not every chic is out to get you or your car. It sounds like youve had things in your past ruin things for your future. Sorry your ex tried to control you so much but not every girl is like that. Your tib will eventually die *gasp* and youll replace it, whether you choose to think about it or not, people live a lot longer than cars. I hope that you dont look at life like this all the time man, because honestly you dont know what your missing out on. Homey is right, and when the time comes whoever is meant to be there will be. Homey, looks like youve pined for this girl for a while. Im telling you she may be scared now but if shes truely meant to be yours it will happen. From a chics point of view the best thing you can do right now is be patient. She will warm up to you. Right now shes probably wondering what your up to and to be honest if shes anythign like me which it sounds like she is when it comes to this stuff its hard as hell for her to open up because she is scared to death. all you can keep doing is trying man. Eventually it will click i promise, and she'll either (a) realize she really wants to be with you or (b) work up the courage to tell what shes thinking. You know where to reach me if you need some advice...

 

The first girl I ever fell in love with was in Junior high. I spent the whole 7th grade trying to get her to go out with me. 8th grade she finally felt the same way about me. We dated the whole year and that summer I went away for a couple of months. She dumped me while I was away. When I came back she wouldn't see me or talk to me. I had no clue why she dumped me. I gave up on her and basically never talked to her all through high school. We ended up going to the same college. We started talking again and one night I told her how I felt and asked her why she dumped me. I knew if didn't do it I would regret it forever. She confessed to me why and told me that she was still in love with me. We started seeing each other again (better this time since we were older). Everything was great. I got my first love ever back.
Then she turned into a complete psycho freak that would not leave me alone. Think Fatal Attraction. I eventually had to tell her to leave me alone and I left school and never saw her again.

Sometimes it's not always good to get what you want. But if I hadn't tried I still would have always regretted it.

 

Thats what im afraid of. but its not me who isnt willing to try, its her. I know i need to show her and stop giving up so quickly every time it doesnt come RIGHT back like i want it to. Some people need to see a little persistance. So i figure ill just wait this time instead of walkin away so fast. Hopefully im not waitin a year lol but ya know