I'd stop complaining.

I mean wait until you look so old they let you in without being carded.

I dont understand why people are in such a hurry..

Fact is that god put his hand in there. Alex shouldnt have gotten in but did and Karma came around and you didnt get in as you shouldnt have.

Do you realise what would have happened to that club had Alex gotten hurt or too drunk and they had to call an ambulance to find out he was 20?

 

lol...

i had a similar issue at a restaurant. i got pissed, made a huge scene, and was promptly handed a beer.

you should have gone down the line of people waiting outside and asked each and every one of them. make the bouncer pissed so he does something stupid.

 

Something stupid like beat the crap out of her boyfriend because he woulent hit a woman?

Personally I would just walk away, makes you the bigger person. Why the hell would I want to make a big song and dance over not being allowed into a club? screw that, there are many more

 

Cops here won't get involved in things like that either.
I don't really blame them though. It's a private club and the bouncers/staff really can keep you out for any reason they want and they don't have to explain themselves.

I'd be super P.O.'ed about it too though. I've never had any club be -that- rude before. o.O

 

I've been to plenty of clubs where the bouncers are assholes. Its a fact of life.

They spend all night dealing with stupid kids trying to get in so they can get drunk and put the license holder in jeapordy.

I have also seen girls turned down and their boyfriends doing a swan dive into the sidewalk without touching the ground lmao.gif

Not a nice job to do really, and getting yelled out because you used your judgement must suck aswell.

Personally I would rather spend the night down at the shore with friends or just chill. If I want loud music I can listen to it in my car or put my headphones on and I dont feel the need to go to all that hassle just to get drunk.

Clubs never really appealed to me, outside raves? sure but clubs are full of pretty boys with their slaggy girlfriends acting the biggun. Either that or it's like a cattle market, full of old birds like mutton dressed as lamb trying to score...

 

well the club three talking about will let in 18 and older too. alex you and swift need to go with me and my wife to canada just cuase its so fun up there, plus youre legal to drink if youre 19 there

 

Hmm I thought Selina didnt drink?

 

Okay let me clarify here:

First: It was an 18 and 21 club. If you were under 21 you could not drink. You got stamped with the under 21 stamp. If you were over 21 you got stamped with that stamp. Alex had his valid i.d. and he got stamped under 21 so he wouldnt be able to drink for sh-t. And we didnt want to anyway, we wanted to just go and have a good time.

Second: When the bouncer didnt admit me in, I was angry. For one, because I have a valid license. I dont have a fake one, and I guarentee he let people in with fakies and thats messed up. The fact that he did that to me was honestly insulting at that moment. I didnt confront him I just stormed out and b****ed outside the club. Alex didnt yell at the guy he was really just like "are you serious?" and "how can you not think its her?" and "can you look at it again?" and then we left. Called the club to complain and thats it. Yes, a bouncer has a right to let in whoever he wants, but I still thought it was unfair.

Third: I hardly drink. I even asked the bouncer if I can get in for under 21 because I didnt want to drink anyway and he said no. All I wanted to do was enjoy myself..I mean we hardly go out at all. I mean thats why we didnt know of any other clubs in the area.

Last: Nothing else worked out for us that night. When we were going home, Alex and I just said its for the better. If nothing worked out it was for a reason. There must have been an angel looking out for us and telling us to just go home. I believe in that.

I think complaining to a club is justified, just to let them know whats going on. Honestly, my mom would have done the same thing. If I told her she probably would have called the club for me lol. She always defended herself, and said you know if things arent right then you open your mouth and say it. Shes right, you do because it might be a benefit for other people.

I dont care anymore about what happened, but hell if everyone else can rant about something, so can I. smile.gif

Phew lol

 

All the time humans are being right and not doing things wrong they dont have to defend themselves.

It's only the guilty mind that goes on the defense.

Why should anyone have to defend what they know is right? for others? lol they dont deserve that.

As for having a good time? I have that everywhere I go because I choose to make it like that. I dont need anything and I am happy just to drive around or sit and stare into space.

And I dont let anyone or anything ruin that. I would have just gone somewhere else and not thought about it. Complaining wont get you anywhere, it's their call to make and they wont care either way.

 

Well I dont like confrontations though so thats why I curse a bit, fume a bit, and then just say f' it. Not worth it to really get stupid over something like this.

I dont really care anymore, went home and just relaxed and that was it.

It was his judgement and even though he was wrong, Im not going to go to court or call the news over it. Its over and done with. Just can add it to the list of stories Ill tell my kids someday lol haha.gif