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exactly what zoned said

 

yeah...I gotta do it...the poor guy. He told everyone, and he said hes been waiting two years for me to be single, and a bunch of other stuff. Its kinda creepy actually.

He even got me roses lol.

Im gonna tell him Im not ready for a relationship. Which is the truth.

 

careful TC...

I don't mean to scare you but this happened to my friend's friend. HE got dumped by the first friend's sister and obssesed over her for months to come. Wouldn't give her up, one night the three of us get drunk and shoot the shit....then at 8am the next morning he says he's takin a shower and takes a knive from the kitchen and slits both his wrists to sh!t...

I got worried about him after 40 minutes and went in (luckily he left in unlocked) but by that time he was already unconcious...and I had to sit there and watch my friend as he almost died in my arms. He was unconcious but still drooling and convulsing from time to time, I wanted to f***in scream it was so scary....

you are a beautiful woman Liz, and guys do crazy things over beautiful women.

let him down nicely, lol.
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OMG, after reading your last post (just above mine)...this guy sounds EXACTLY LIKE the guy in my story who killed himself..

now I'm sorta scared for the dude. sad.gif

 

like a bandaid...

 

omg...

damnit

my ex was like that too. He stalked me and everything.

Damnit. Well at least Im moving...

 

I don't know about the whole suicide thing .. but I do know the easiest way for a guy to get over a girl is to get dumped and then never have to see her or be reminded of her again .. cold turkey. or a rebound. lol.

 

yeah same for me, thats how I got over my ex so quickly. Didnt see him or talk to him for like a month lol.

thanks guys

 

Just tell him you enjoy hanging but that's it and you have no plans on dating him or getting serious. He'll probably still hang out with you in the hopes that he'll get somewhere eventually.

 

whats up with roses? i'm bringing em to my sunshine just cuzz i feel like it..

tell him honestly... i'd say it would hurt me more if there would be some sort of conspiracy behind..like.. well..hinst-hint..i don't like italians (hint-hint)....just tell it straightforward...hurts but eh..

 

There really isn't a nice way to let anyone down... subtleties don't work. You have to come out and be upfront and just say that you want nothing more than his friendship or nothing at all. If you try to be subtle with someone that obviously likes you alot he just won't get the hints. Trust me I know I've been there many times being rejected sucks but life goes on. Just be very upfront and don't drop hints