What would you do?
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Long story short, someone I know's sister has an apparent crush on me... met her a few months ago, didn't really think much of it, I tend to become oblivious as I focus more on my career...
She will either text me, or we'll chat on Facebook...
Other times she's very friendly in terms of hugs, at one point she came from behind me putting her arms around me -- even when her boyfriend was in the same area.
I just got a text from her saying she had a dream that we were pretty much having sex...
It would be the first time I have messed around with a girl who had a boyfriend which I dont even think I could do, but she also has two kids with him... so I'm not quite certain how to approach this (some of you may say stay out of it, but I'd like to at least sleep with her)
She will either text me, or we'll chat on Facebook...
Other times she's very friendly in terms of hugs, at one point she came from behind me putting her arms around me -- even when her boyfriend was in the same area.
I just got a text from her saying she had a dream that we were pretty much having sex...
It would be the first time I have messed around with a girl who had a boyfriend which I dont even think I could do, but she also has two kids with him... so I'm not quite certain how to approach this (some of you may say stay out of it, but I'd like to at least sleep with her)
She has kids with the guy. They are a family. Don't screw up 4 people's lives just because you're horny. Think of it from the boyfriends perspective. Maybe she's just bored ATM and just wants to make herself feel "sexy" by flirting with someone who isn't her "husband". Don't be an ass. :angry:
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If you are even thinking of getting involved with somebody else's train wreck comprising at least two child-support cases waiting to happen and a possibly-murderously-jealous babydaddy, you are a sub-moron. Think with the OTHER head for a second willya?
At the very least it's trouble. At second-worst it's a lifetime of financial slavery to a set of kids you never see.
At the very least it's trouble. At second-worst it's a lifetime of financial slavery to a set of kids you never see.
im in the same Boat as you with a girl called leanne.
I don't know the guy but he went to my school.
She holds my hands and sits on my lap Rubbing up me trying to tease me.
I seriously have to take it with pitch of salt cause her kids love me to pieces.. and i don't wanna be the reason there dad feels uncomfortable around the house
TBH i decided. I know for a fact i won't shag her. But i would emotional support her in tuff times. i would recommend the same for you.
or atleast wait till somthing happens.
Cause a excuse girls like to make is (there split up and on break) u get emotional attended and she'll f*ck off back to him cause its "Her Babys daddy" and your left feeling like peice of sh*t. (sorry for swearing)
I don't know the guy but he went to my school.
She holds my hands and sits on my lap Rubbing up me trying to tease me.
I seriously have to take it with pitch of salt cause her kids love me to pieces.. and i don't wanna be the reason there dad feels uncomfortable around the house
TBH i decided. I know for a fact i won't shag her. But i would emotional support her in tuff times. i would recommend the same for you.
or atleast wait till somthing happens.
Cause a excuse girls like to make is (there split up and on break) u get emotional attended and she'll f*ck off back to him cause its "Her Babys daddy" and your left feeling like peice of sh*t. (sorry for swearing)
Heres the thing....if she's flirting with you while already in a relationship...she's most likely flirting with other guys too.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jW5tgQr-10
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jW5tgQr-10
She has kids with the guy. They are a family. Don't screw up 4 people's lives just because you're horny. Think of it from the boyfriends perspective. Maybe she's just bored ATM and just wants to make herself feel "sexy" by flirting with someone who isn't her "husband". Don't be an ass. :angry:





