What you doing this weekend or what would you rather be doing etc.?

This weekend I'm going to our monthly local import meet and then tomorrow I'll be installing my BBTB and drilled/slotted rotors. That's pretty typical for me, although it's usually working on other people's stuff. The weather's finally getting good enough for more meets and cruises.

Other time's I'll talk to or text friends that live too far away to see, go shooting, offroading occasionally, go to the strip club and/or out drinking with friends, and play the 360 or online games.

 

I'll actually be at a Tib/Elantra BBQ in the morning. cool.gif

 

wow.. that actually makes you sound like you do something, but in reality who is the one doing the work... we all know that it isn't you. who is the one that washes and details the cars, and when WE are working on cars, who does most the work.. WILBUR does. who takes care of the house stuff.. oh wait that's right it sure as hell aint you becuase you are to busy being on line and talking to everyone else and worrying about everyone else to realize that the people who SHOULD matter to you even exist. To even really talk to you I have to get online, because you are always to busy with everyone else... If I want you to even help me with something occasionally I am the unreasonable wife who expects sooooooo much out of you.. well guess what.. me wanting you to bring the plates from your computer desk into the kitchen so that I can do the dishes after cooking YOU dinner doesn't make me the f-ing devil. Maybe now that I have your attention you will take the time to stop and think about what is important and maybe then you will get your priorities straight, or maybe in your eyes they already are and I/we don't matter to you.

 

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WTF?

So I don't do anything huh? I guess the house you live in means nothing. And the nice new Tiburon you drive means nothing too. Or I suppose that I somehow got these things for free without having to work for them? How typical of you. I guess that YEARS OF HARD WORK < a few dishes. Screw that. As soon as you start mowing the lawn, fixing plumbing, and actually working to keep our vehicles on the road (washing and detailing what...twice a year?) then you can talk to me about getting something done around this place. And Wilbur does all the work on the cars? That's funny because Wilbur DOESN'T LIVE HERE. I DO. These things don't only happen when he's here either. He does come down a lot and help or bring his projects but even when he does I'm out there working alongside him.

Housework I will give you that one. I don't do much of it. But guess what? I don't see you doing a whole hell of a lot either. At least wherever I go I don't leave a path of household destruction like you do. If I lived alone the house would be spotless. I learned to clean up after myself long ago, a lesson that you apparently missed.

You're also right about me spending a lot of time online and talking to other people. Why not? Some of those people seem to actually like me, which is more than I can say about you lately. It's not like you don't talk to your friends and it's not like all my friends are "online". A lot of the time I spend "online" in your eyes I'm not even on the internet. I'm editing videos and pictures or playing games. That's another thing you always tell me you want done but don't understand that it takes a lot of time.

Haha, MY priorities? YOU want to talk about MY priorities? Hell, I don't even know how low I rank to you anymore. I'm below your rabbit, I know that. He gets fed before me and you clean up his area every day while I'm stumbling over your SH*T all over my floor and making myself something to eat. Maybe I should have rabbit next time. And where are your priorities at starting this here? What's important to you? Drama. It does and always has surrounded you like a cloud. Everywhere you go you inject your dramatics no matter who it hurts. I bend over backwards to give you everything you want but if it's not enough maybe I should find one of the hundreds of women who would feel lucky to have a man like me.

 

Ok.. so you do work but guess what ass we both do! It takes two people to make a marriage. I can't make this work on my own and I have been trying for so long to. I can't believe that you would say that I do nothing. I am the one that makes the meals, cleans, and makes sure to get the kid ready and help her with her homework. You are alway just on the computer. I now know where you get it. Remember when we talked about me getting a job??? You told me that if I did you would help out with the house because we would both be woking.. and now I am the only one that does anything, and then I get ridiculed when I slack. Yes I may have started to slack, but guess what asshole you could just a easily help and the house would be clean. I am tired of you always making me to look like the bad guy in all this when in reality you need to look in the mirror and see that its you.

I hope that you know that when I left yesterday with the kid we won't be coming back. You are being compeletly unreasonable and until you can see that Im not coming back! Guess what! I can find any number of guys that I want too! You can be replaced just as easy as I can.

 

Whatever.

If you think I wasn't trying to make this work then I guess there's no hope.

Does heating frozen SH*T up out of a box even count as cooking? In that case I want credit for cooking 3 days out of the week for the times I would take you out to eat.

Blah blah computer blah blah online blah blah we never do anything together blah blah you're the bad guy. Whatever. When was the last time you were more than 5 feet away from your laptop? At least you can see what's on my screen any time you walk by. At least I don't slam my computer shut and frantically close windows whenever you walk into the room. Hmm...

I can do the housework if I so choose. The house is almost spotless right now as a matter of fact. It's funny how that works when there's nobody around to make a mess of the place. I even had time to get my BBTB and rotors installed. Guess cleaning this place must not take that much time after all.

I don't feel that I'm being any more unreasonable than you so I guess that means you won't be coming back. Fine. I didn't start this bullsh*t. I'm sure you can find any number of jackass guys that you want to. That's the nature of being female. It doesn't take any work, skill, or really anything to find all the guys you want. Good luck finding someone that's not a huge loser though. I'm sure any decent guy will see right through you and stay far away. He will if he's smart. I have no doubt that you can find some poor sucker though. When you do let me talk to him so that I can thank him for taking you off of my hands and give him some pointers so he knows the neurotic things he'll be putting up with.

 

You guys are crazy.

 

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Yeah I don't know what to do with this woman...maybe she's beyond help.