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Old 08-24-2014, 04:00 PM
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Default If you found out today that your wife cheated on you

at her bachelorette party, would you divorce her?
Old 08-24-2014, 06:21 PM
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Yup.
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Be more specific.



Did she kiss someone else? f*ck someone else?



Did the two of you set clear expectations of what was and wasn't allowed to happen during your bachelor/bachelorette parties?



Has there been any other "extracurricular" activity since the marriage?



There is a thought process in society that a bachelor/bachelorette party is a "free pass" before you get married. Sure, there are people who don't view it that way, but there are plenty of people who do, and choose to look the other way regarding anything that happened on that night.



So, could be something to think about.
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Originally Posted by pnutkitten
Be more specific.



Did she kiss someone else? f*ck someone else?



Did the two of you set clear expectations of what was and wasn't allowed to happen during your bachelor/bachelorette parties?



Has there been any other "extracurricular" activity since the marriage?



There is a thought process in society that a bachelor/bachelorette party is a "free pass" before you get married. Sure, there are people who don't view it that way, but there are plenty of people who do, and choose to look the other way regarding anything that happened on that night.



So, could be something to think about.
Lol. My significant other went on the same route for an answer when I asked her this question.
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Originally Posted by 03-accent-03
Lol. My significant other went on the same route for an answer when I asked her this question.


Well, if the topic was just, "If you found out your wife cheated on you... would you ask for a divorce?" my answer would be a little different, but since the topic was what it was, I believe that there is some grey area here.
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Originally Posted by pnutkitten
Well, if the topic was just, "If you found out your wife cheated on you... would you ask for a divorce?" my answer would be a little different, but since the topic was what it was, I believe that there is some grey area here.
Yeah, I know. It was just funny.
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If by "divorce" you mean murder in cold blood, then yes.

We also have an agreement. The first one to cheat dies, to the victor go the spoils.
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Originally Posted by Tibbi
If by "divorce" you mean murder in cold blood, then yes.

We also have an agreement. The first one to cheat dies, to the victor go the spoils.


To the "victor" goes 25 years in prison.
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No I wouldn't.



Go ahead and enjoy your bachelorette party, I enjoyed my night out with the boys before getting hitched...a party done right will have tight lips and the other party will never find out about it.



Wont say I didn't get a few complimentary dances, also won't say I didn't enjoy them but I still wouldn't go plunging my dick into some stripper. It is possible to have fun and still be respectful of your partner. I would be upset if she had sex but I certainly wouldn't divorce her, things happen and we move on.



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