Okay, so here's the situation: I live on campus at my university, in an apartment containing six bedrooms, a kitchen, a living room, and two bathrooms. For the eight months, I've been living across the hall from a girl named May.



She's a pain in the arse to live with, if I'm honest.



-She's got a huge weed habit, like in excess of ten bowls per day (that's over a quarter ounce per week), not including when she has friends over or when she feels that there is a special occasion.

-She also regularly takes a variety of other drugs, including but not limited to: ecstasy, acid, shrooms, and dexamphetamines. She also smokes meth from time to time.

-She deals a huge amount of weed, like pounds at a time. This involves having strange ass people knocking on the front door at all hours - they aren't even polite.

-She also likes to have noisy friends over pretty frequently.



Now here's the kicker. We recently failed an apartment inspection because May and another housemate didn't clean the living room after a party that they'd had. I was going to get charged for the cleaning as well, so I had to explain to the admin lady that they were partying and what have you. One thing led to another, and she got pretty interested and said that I should meet with the head of dorm admin on thursday, to officially report what May is doing so that they can 'deal with her'.



The thing is, although I think that May makes spastic life choices, and she is a pain in the arse to live with... I don't feel that reporting her is the right thing to do. She'd get kicked out of the complex, and if they searched her room at all, she'd most likely be sent to jail for possession with intent to deal. No sh*t.







What would you do?

 

in my experience with roommates like that...i say f*ck EM



if they are willing to put YOU in danger to support THEIR habit then f*ck THEM



think about it, some crazed crackhead comes in to buy drugs, they get into a tussle, one of them is killed and you are in the next room



my old roommate let 2 homeless "friends" move into our apartment "just for a little while until they get back on their feet"



shortly after they moved in, our electicity bill TRIPLED same with the water bill IN ONE MONTH. After my roommate lost his job, i overheard the homeless guys making a plan to ROB PEOPLE AT ATMS saying they were gonna inject em with a needle that has aids if they dont empty their accounts



i moved out 3 days later...then found out that the bills went up cuz homeless guys were growin pot in the closet



and then roughly 3 months later my old roommate came home and EVERYTHING was out of the apartment

while he was at work the 2 homeless guys rented a uhaul, stole EVERYTHING(including his toothbrush) and moved to another state



you dont need bullshit like that man, shes gonna end up getting you arrested/hurt/killed so again f*ck HER and get her sorry ass to a 12 step

 

Find new housemates.

 

or move out if you can



that shouldve been my first piece of advice lol

 

Same here, they wound up stealing money from everyone, breaking into locked rooms and even other apartments in the complex and even got in a shoot out outside of our apartment after a fight at "the club" [and old abandoned barn frequently used by local college students as a social establishment.]



f*ck that noise. Get out of that situation before sh*t gets real.

Also, I'd totally rat them out but give the authorities the name of one of their frequent guests so sh*t wont come back to you. But I'm a vindictive person.

 

Sounds like you have no intentions of hitting it so since there is no use for her id turn her ass in and make your situation better.

 

Unless your story left out the part about her giving the best head you've ever had, throw her to the wolves.

 

^x2... but still try to get that head

 

 

My experience with roommates is similar. I once shared a house with my wife (then girlfriend) and two other guys. We used to party there a lot and we had a really good time, but in the end the other two were just causing problems for my wife and I. Simple sh*t at first like not cleaning common areas or doing dishes, but by the end the one guy had let his room turn to such a shithole that it stunk up the whole house and attracted flies. After we had all moved out the experience pretty much ruined our friendships.



This chick.... You don't even like her! One of you has to go. Everyone will be better off once the split is done. If you're brave offer up an ultimatum, "Clean up your act now, because I'm meeting up with so and so in a week to explain what you do here". It gives her a fair chance to cut the sh*t, if she doesn't give her the boot.



However, before you do anything, try and get that head. Maybe when shes on shrooms or something, tell her its a candy bar.