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Guys have you ever friendzoned a chick?

Old Apr 17, 2013 | 12:51 PM
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Default Guys have you ever friendzoned a chick?

We know girls are notorious for putting guys who like them in a friend zone. But anyone ever turned the tables and put a girl (who has expressed they like you and want to be with you) in a friend zone?
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 01:29 PM
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I've broken up with/turned down women, but not friendzoned them. It's retarded and I don't think that males can really have an exclusively platonic relationship with a woman, especially if it's clear that she wants the D.
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by wheel_of_steel
I don't think that males can really have an exclusively platonic relationship with a woman
I don't know about you, but I haven't inseminated any of my wife's friends yet.

I DO believe that a mature male adult can have a platonic freindship with women. Hell if I can I'm sure that a mature man can as well
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 02:36 PM
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ignore wheels, hes like 20 years old anyways.
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 02:37 PM
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My ex was in the friend zone for 2 years before I relented.
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 03:20 PM
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I don't know about you, but I haven't inseminated any of my wife's friends yet.

I DO believe that a mature male adult can have a platonic freindship with women. Hell if I can I'm sure that a mature man can as well


I haven't inseminated any of your wife's friends either, I don't think.



Your wife's friends are a little different because you kinda have to be friends with them. But look. I'm aware that it's a big generalisation to say what I have, but it's simply the rational conclusion that I've come to from what I've seen in people around me. But in terms of two people of the opposite sex approaching each other and forming relationships, people of the same sex tend to be able to form decent non-sexually motivated friendships - not including homosex for simplicity here.



I dunno, maybe you can prove me wrong with some examples or something, but so far non-sexual male-female friendship seems to be the exception rather than the rule.











ps stfu faith you're like 90
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 03:34 PM
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He makes a fair point. As a**holeish as it was, when I was 22 I had a gf that cheated on me so I banged 11 of her friends in her bed (7 of them in one weekend , best party ever!!) Looking back today I realize how hard I spun the wheel-o-diseases and still managed to come (hehe) out clean. I'd never repeat the process even in spite. With age comes clarity







More to my thesis, I have several female friends, some I've known for decades, and even as a teenager I was able to differentiate between "put it in" and "probably better off as a drinking buddy." It really boils down to being able to realize who you are compatible with and who you just like hanging around and derping. The only real exception to that would be when approached by one of the friends, then you are put in the awkward position of sating the balls or "freindzoning." Those results vary greatly and are often volatile. I had one friend from HS that I hooked up with at drunken random once, but we had the same resulting after thoughts and mutually realized friendship is a better option. For the most part though, I've had little sexual tension with friends from the opposing sex. Fap more. Get those demons out.
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 04:44 PM
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Yeah, I've friendzoned a lot of chicks.
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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 06:53 PM
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hundreds. in fact, one today. she was really pretty too... i have a real urge to man up and just ask her on a date and accept my age.



For the most part though, I've had little sexual tension with friends from the opposing sex. Fap more. Get those demons out.


lol man there are some really fine girls out there it's hard to resist! some are truly regrettable because all it may take is one question, even just for feeling good about experiencing. it's just not in me to play games and party, although that's exactly what they want and all you have to do is ask.



this is my reliquary:

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Old Apr 17, 2013 | 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted by 187sks
Yeah, I've friendzoned a lot of chicks.
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