does this make me a bad person
03-07-2010, 12:41 AM
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does this make me a bad person
i've recently become 'involved' with a girl who happens to be asian. she asks me today if i have a thing for asian girls because she finds it distasteful, etc. I tell her no obviously. but now that i think of it i have a a physical attraction to asian women. I really don't think it's any different than liking blonde girls with big tits. it just happens to be that a lot of asian women have physical features i like. i find these traits in other women, but more often than not i find more asians attractive than other races.
there's such a stygma about the white guy and asian woman that i feel like i can't admit it, but deep down i don't really think it's such a bad thing.
what's your guys' opinions on this?
there's such a stygma about the white guy and asian woman that i feel like i can't admit it, but deep down i don't really think it's such a bad thing.
what's your guys' opinions on this?
03-07-2010, 01:02 AM
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It's normal, healthy preference. It's only a fetish when you go crazy for the ugly ones too IMO. Before that, they're just what you find attractive and that's fine.
You can keep them, very few Asian chicks interest me.
You can keep them, very few Asian chicks interest me.
03-07-2010, 04:33 AM
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i have a curiosity about asian women, but have yet to date one (but i also have a curiosity about women from all different races). 187sks is right, it's only a fetish if you include all types of asian women....not just those that have the features that you are looking for in a woman.
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who cares...
if that is what you like, that is what you like...
me personally being married, but I like Women in general...before i was married every race could get it
if that is what you like, that is what you like...
me personally being married, but I like Women in general...before i was married every race could get it
03-08-2010, 07:45 AM
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I've dated 2 asian chicks in the past, and they both were straight up crazy.gif
So yeah....no more asian chicks for me headshake.gif
So yeah....no more asian chicks for me headshake.gif
03-08-2010, 08:47 AM
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My gf is chinese. Her family is really strict and traditional which is good for me because it makes her rebellious and "fun" if you know what I mean. wink.gif
03-08-2010, 09:02 AM
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They have nice bods some of them. Indonesian have pretty features. There are really pretty girls of all kind. Indian, Hispanic, Asian...you name it. It only matters if you both can tolerate and fit into the expectations of their culture. Ove seen strict white American families from European descent blend marry central American origin. It ready depends on the compatability between you and her. If its strong, then it is ok. There are different mindsets in different cultures.
Personally, I have to date a Polish chick, not because shes white but because her and my culture, our language, and our understanding of the world around is one. A lot of girls I've turned down think I will not date girls of other descent. Simply not the case, its because I happen to be in a diverse place and I don't feel comfortable (sane) without a girl who understands my mindset.
Personally, I have to date a Polish chick, not because shes white but because her and my culture, our language, and our understanding of the world around is one. A lot of girls I've turned down think I will not date girls of other descent. Simply not the case, its because I happen to be in a diverse place and I don't feel comfortable (sane) without a girl who understands my mindset.
