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11-19-2009, 09:00 AM
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sex double standard explained
I just had an argument with a girl I know. She was saying how it's unfair that if a guy sleeps with a different girl every week, he's a legend, but if a girl sleeps with just two guys in a year, she's a slut. So in response I told her that if a key opens lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of different keys, then it's a shitty lock. That shut her up.
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11-19-2009, 10:05 AM
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Seriously that chick has a valid point. How come guys get to sleep around and have all the fun and us chicks can't without being called a slut. And no clever answers haha
11-19-2009, 11:11 AM
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That line is saved for future use. Lol.
Amanda, I don't think it's particularly fair either. I will say though that I don't mind fooling around with a girl with a ton of experience, but it would be difficult for me personally to get serious with a girl with a ton more experience than me. I don't know about other guys, but I'm a bit insecure and I don't want to think about being compared to a bunch of guys, some of which were probably better in bed or better looking or better endowed than I am. The more guys a girl has been with the more likely it is that I measure up poorly and that idea bothers me. I know it doesn't bother a lot of guys, and it shouldn't, because obviously you're good enough to make her happy overall if she wants to date you. No matter how logical that is, myself and some other guys at least have an issue with it.
That line is saved for future use. Lol.
Amanda, I don't think it's particularly fair either. I will say though that I don't mind fooling around with a girl with a ton of experience, but it would be difficult for me personally to get serious with a girl with a ton more experience than me. I don't know about other guys, but I'm a bit insecure and I don't want to think about being compared to a bunch of guys, some of which were probably better in bed or better looking or better endowed than I am. The more guys a girl has been with the more likely it is that I measure up poorly and that idea bothers me. I know it doesn't bother a lot of guys, and it shouldn't, because obviously you're good enough to make her happy overall if she wants to date you. No matter how logical that is, myself and some other guys at least have an issue with it.
11-19-2009, 11:26 AM
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leave it to a woman to ruin the fun....
haha i think the whole double standard just comes from being in a male dominated society. i know it sucks, but girls can still hold the power. just tell us to sleep on the couch and now you're back in control lol
haha i think the whole double standard just comes from being in a male dominated society. i know it sucks, but girls can still hold the power. just tell us to sleep on the couch and now you're back in control lol
11-19-2009, 04:04 PM
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I don't think its unfair at all. Almost any girl can take a pick to have sex with pretty much any guy she wishes to do so. A guy can't do that. A guy has to work for it (most of the time) unless he lowers his standards.
Girls pretty much when they want to have sex. Guys want to have sex all the time. So its up to the girl...
Girls pretty much when they want to have sex. Guys want to have sex all the time. So its up to the girl...