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10-25-2011, 03:52 PM
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Guys: Do you pay for first dates?
Do you guys usually pay on the first date, or split it? I have heard different opinions from guys on this. Some thing a guy should always pay. Others think that a first date should be split evenly as you're first getting to know each other. Thoughts?
10-25-2011, 10:52 PM
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You should always pay unless they insist. Remember: unless you are wasting time, dating is marriage-candidate selection. When you get married and she decides to be a mommy, you will always be paying . . . get used to the idea. 
10-27-2011, 02:32 PM
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^That is very fair. I can't even imagine a girl asking me out to dinner though...I'm sure it happens for some guys but I pretty much figure I'm gonna have to not only ask, but be pretty convincing lol.
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i think the best girls out there dont mind you paying the first few dates but feel badly that they never pay after a couple. shows that they're not gold diggers.